For some, triathlon can be a source of conflict. I hate reading articles where this sport gets in the way of a healthy relationship. They have actually coined the term, "Tri-vorce" for people who get divorced citing triathlon related causes.
Won't happen to me. The Wife actually relishes the time I spend working out. It keeps me out of the other majority of people with weight problems. Plus, I get clingy when I'm around her. It gives her some space.
Here are some people who I think do it right. They worked sport right into the ceremony.
SwimThey have a floating chapel. Swim around the buoy, out to the steeple, and then back into transition.
If you are a life guard, you are allowed to paddle your way out.
If she'll wear the veil and spandex, you've got a keeper.
RunI wonder what the rental costs.
See, there are examples of people who swim, bike, run-type matches.
If you are not going to be in sport, you probably should have a kick-ass proposal.